Can I visit my loved one at rest?

Arranging a funeral

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We have private remembrance rooms, sometimes referred to as a Chapel of Rest, where you can spend time with your loved one in peaceful and private surroundings.

We can help make the space feel more personal to you and your family. You may wish to display a favourite photograph or include meaningful items that reflect your loved one’s personality, interests or life.

If you would prefer to have your loved one at home before the funeral, you can also speak to our team about whether this can be arranged.

What happens when I visit?

Visiting someone at rest is a very personal experience. You can use the time in whatever way feels most comfortable to you. You might simply want to sit quietly with your loved one, talk to them, play a meaningful piece of music or share the time with close family members.

You do not need to stay for a particular length of time. Our team will explain what to expect beforehand and give you the privacy and time you need.

Can I place personal items with my loved one?

You may wish to bring photographs, letters, flowers or another small item that has special meaning to your loved one or your family. If you would like an item to remain with them, please speak to our team first so that we can advise you on what is possible.

These small personal touches can help make your time together feel more meaningful and provide another way to reflect the life of the person you are saying goodbye to.

What if I’m unsure whether I want to visit?

It is completely understandable to feel uncertain about seeing a loved one after they have died, particularly if you have never experienced this before.

You do not need to make the decision alone. Our team can talk you through what to expect, answer any questions you have and help you decide what feels right for you. If you ultimately decide that you would prefer not to visit, that is completely okay too.

Saying goodbye in the way that feels right for you

There is no single way to say goodbye to someone you love. Whether you choose to spend some private time with your loved one at rest or prefer to remember them in another way, we will respect your wishes and help make the arrangements as personal and comfortable as possible.

If you would like to arrange a visit or have any questions about visiting your loved one at rest, please contact our 24-hour manned line on 0151 424 5432.

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